The secret.. shhhh
Shit this is everywhere now… I should start a business and call it the secret.
See truthfully there is no secret I’ve been doing this since I was about 6. Some people have it some don’t, no one is better one way or the other it’s just a different way of life.
It’s called self respect and deep confidence within yourself. Ya if have it you usually you get what you want but still there are issues with life being too easy. See if you don’t have challenges then you will not want to settle for the simple life you will always seek a greater challenge. Some times simplicity is closer to happiness then success, and the pursuit to true happiness it what it’s all about.
And keep in mind it won’t help if your an asshole or a bitch, karma will kick you in the ass no matter how confident you are. 
