Being driven is not something you are born with, it’s takes time to learn just like any other trait. Here are some short cuts to start taking more action towards your goals today. Shout out to TADLA for helping me clean things up! 1. Feeling Bad for Yourself. Most driven people take what they can from a bad situation, learn from it, and move on. Never feel like the world owes you something, it does not. 2. Allowing Others to Use You. Driven people can see right away if someone is trying to use them or take their energy. When you see this happening or foresee this, shake it off and move on. 3. Being Afraid of Change Driven people embrace change and realize to succeed you must adapt and excel. 4. Worrying About Things You Cannot Control To be driven is to not let minor situations set back your overall goal. Things will always set you back, the trick is to let it effect you the least amount possible and stay moving forward. 5. People Pleasing Driven people do not get ahead by kissing butts. They make their own path and plow through anything in their way. 6. Fear […]
I truly feel our limits are set early in life. I also don’t think we even come close to the extent of our brain’s ability. So it’s really on what we feel we can do with a deep true confidence. I think this level of true confidence is best manifested at a young age. I guess my point is… teachers, parents, social workers, or any one working with a child, do not ever make a child feel like they cannot do something no matter how bad they fail in your eyes. We are all different, and I can assure you their ability with the right push is far and beyond anything they are trying to do right now. If you must try to muzzle them, do it by positive reinforcement rewards so they naturally will focus on the things you need them to do. The more you try to force them, the less confidence they will have in themselves. The more you make them feel like they can’t the less they will do.
The casualties of success 1. You will lose some friends 2. You will feel nuts time to time 3. You will feel pain 4. You will try to talk yourself out of it over and over. 5. You will lose money 6. You will cry 7. You will be discouraged by almost everyone. 8. You will doubt yourself several times. 9. You will get strange sleeping habits. 10. People will give you grief 11. There is a hump and once made you will never look back. 12. Your friends will think you are brilliant!